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Wednesday, January 7, 2009 - 11 Tevet, 5769
ChabadofBinghamton.com » Library » Stories » Contemporary » Love in a Heartbeat


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Love in a Heartbeat



Many years ago, after graduating from medical school, I worked for several months in a clinic in El Valle, a little town in the central highlands of the Dominican Republic. The staff at the clinic consisted of me, another physician fresh out of school, and a nurse--all under the supervision of a doctor who'd just completed his residency. Together, the four of us lived and worked in a cinder block building with two examination rooms, a small surgical area, a waiting room, and some tiny sleeping quarters.

Since the nearest hospital was more than an hour and a half's drive away, we offered the only medical care for the entire region. Despite our meager stores of drugs and equipment, we saw nearly seventy patients each day and treated nearly every conceivable disorder. People would literally walk barefoot for a day to come to our clinic, and often were hopelessly ill. I felt as if I'd somehow been transported back in time to a different reality, far from the one I had known.

Although I spoke workable Spanish, communication was often difficult because many of our patients were French-speaking migrant workers from Haiti who spoke Spanish haltingly. Once, a young Haitian woman was brought to us in a state of shock after her arm was mangled by a threshing machine. We rushed her to our makeshift operating room and poured IV fluids into her as we struggled to control the bleeding. Her hematocrit was so low it barely registered on our equipment. She needed blood badly and it was clear that we were going to lose her without it.

The sole method we had for giving blood was a direct transfusion from one person to another. With our rudimentary blood-typing kit, the only potential donor we could find was her younger brother. His Spanish was poor, but he seemed to understand when we explained that we needed to take some of his blood to save his sister. He turned a little pale, sat silent for a moment, and asked if there was any other way. "No," I replied, and he slowly nodded his head in agreement.

We placed an IV in him and began transfusing his sister. Almost immediately, she started regaining her color. Her brother smiled as he saw this, then turned his head to me, and in his soft, broken Spanish asked, "Cuando voy a morir?"--"When will I die?" I stood dumbfounded, and then realized he'd misunderstood our explanations and thought we needed all his blood to save his sister.

The situation seemed humorous until a stunning fact hit me. This child, this precious child, with hardly a moment's hesitation, had been willing to sacrifice his life to save the sister he loved. At that moment, I stood in awe of this boy. As I looked down at him, his face glowed with a kind of radiance, and despite his fear, he seemed at peace.


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Posted: Apr 30, 2008
Children are....
I will never forget this life experience that you shared with me....Thank You....

.I have the priviledge to work with children and I have found that their specialness is not appreciated, nurtured nor really understood by others. Let us open our ears and our hearts.
Posted By E Grunwald, Bklyn, NY

Posted: Apr 29, 2008
Love in a heartbeat
Amazing, this moved me to tears. What a lesson for each and everyone of us. I will make it a point, to remember what this child was willing to do for his sister, next time someone asks me for something as minor as a ride to the store, or to watch their child until they return, or to pick something up for them at the store, on my way home. Thank you so much!!! May G-d bless you and your staff for what you are doing for someone else, away from your love ones.
Posted By Tehillah Harrison, Owasso, OK



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